I saw this video last week and sent these comments to a friend:



Well have I got some fascinating news for you! There's a video called "First
Time Ball Busters" or something like that. Very strange. I found a vid clip of
it on the Web and found it very funny. So I got a copy. It arrived yesterday. I
put it in the player figuring I would watch one of the scenes and then go on to
the new Star Trek movie. Well, I sat there and watched the whole damn thing,
just rapt. Had to be nearly an hour and a half.



There are six or eight scenes of different women beating up the balls of this
one guy. They slap and punch and kick and bite and kick a soccer ball into them
-- real stuff. The first amazement is how this guy takes the pain. I've been
with dominant women who slapped, whipped and beat my balls, and I know it HURTS.
I can even understand the underlying feelings. It can be nothing short of
sublime to willingly accept all that pain for the beauty of a woman. But this
guy seems to get way beyond that. I don't know how he does it.



Now, the really astonishing thing is how much the women get into this. For most
of them, it takes a while to build, but eventually all of them are just brutally
punching and kicking his balls as hard as they can. These are porn actors, so we
know their acting skills are not this good. There is something underlying that
makes them take enormous satisfaction in this. One woman who started very
reluctantly and apologized each time she hit his balls ends up punching as hard
as she can until she can't even raise her arm anymore -- and then says she wants
to take the guy home with her. This is something she NEEDS! In the first scene a
woman who is part of the shooting crew can't control herself and gets into the
scene bashing his balls. She can't stop herself, and it takes a while to slowly
move her out of most of the action. But she's still there taking pics with a
cell phone or sending the pic to someone or something, and you can see she is
loving it.



There really isn't anyone else I'd talk with about this. I know you'll have some
insight, perhaps even some interest. I'd be really interested in why you think
these women got so caught up in this? You're probably familiar with the Milgram
experiment, and others, where people ended up inflicting pain on people far
beyond what they thought themselves to be capable of in rational moments. That's
what I thought of as I saw the ferocity in the faces of some of these women.
There were times when he was in so much pain he tried to close his legs to
protect himself, and some of them screamed at him to keep his legs open, I mean
viciously screaming and calling him names. I wonder if there is an anger
involved in the porn business where women are treated as just so much necessary
slag. Have their relationships with men been so unsatisfactory as to leave layer
upon layer of underlying anger and resentment?

And she responded with this:



So, my opinion on the ball busting bitches is that they felt safe hitting this
guy.  They were making a movie and had permission to be aggressive, and they
really got into it.  I'm sure they were feeding off of each other's aggression
as well.  And yes, I am sure there is anger in the porn industry.  Think about
it.  Women get judged as diseased sluts for doing what they do.  And if they
want to make really good money they have to do stuff they may not normally do or
enjoy:  anal, girl/girl, get gang banged, etc.  So they do this stuff, go away
not totally happy, and best of all it's all on camera!  Forever!  Hooray!  LOL!
And now my other theory, which will sound cliche I'm sure.  What kind of
relationship do these women have with their fathers?  I think Chris Rock did a
skit where he said something like "Dad, if your daughter becomes a stripper you
fucked up."  Not that all porn stars have dads who disappeared from their lives
or molested them, but I've heard the numbers are a bit higher for them so that
could leave them with some hostilities toward men.  Those are my thoughts
anyways.



And finally, today I finished up by telling her:

I've come to think that what so amazes me in the ball-busting videos is actually
seeing something I've read about in purely abstract terms. I've done a lot of
pretty heavy-duty reading in "feminism" for lack of a better term. Susan
Brownmiller gets pretty deep into it, especially the porn realm. The real
academic, for my book-buying money, is Mary Daly. Years ago I waded through her
"Gyn/Ecology: Metaethics of Radical Feminism. She is genuinely radical and would
diminish the Patriarchy (a theological concept for her) by limiting the number
of males on the planet.



Intellectually, these writers suggest a deeply ingrained resentment of being
born female in a world dominated by males. While I don't think they've ever said
so, they appear to think it's almost genetic. So, anyway when I see these women
lose themselves in the aggression and violence they are directing at this man
(and more blatantly, his sexual organs) is something truly primal. Seeing
something so purely animalistic in a human fascinates me as nothing else could.
Maybe this world would really be a better place if every woman had some guy she
could kick in the balls whenever she wanted -- knowing she would be thanked for
it rather than being knocked on her ass.



Who knew so-called porn could be such fun!!!

I suspect you'll be surprised by such comments!!

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